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Are You Dating a Potential Cheater?
Like most single women who are dating, Im sure youll want to avoid getting involved with a man whos likely to cheat. After all, he could one day break your heart. But according to statistics, an estimated 50 to 70 percent of men cheat on their mates. How can you tell if the man youre dating is one of these potential cheaters? Wouldnt it be great to have this information about him before you get too deeply involved?
Find out If Hes Prone to Infidelity
Finding out whether or not the man youre dating is prone to infidelity is much easier than you think. Studies reveal that some men are more likely to cheat than others because of their background, their past history, or certain character traits. Using this information, Ive designed a 7 question quiz that can help you determine if the man youre dating is a potential cheater.
Single Women Screen Dates with this Quiz
The Potential Cheaters Quiz was originally posted on my website http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com to help married women find out if their husbands are potential cheaters. However numerous single women report that theyre using the quiz to screen the men they meet at dating sites, and through dating services and personal ads.
Decide Who Not to Date
The Potential Cheaters quiz can help you make an informed decision about whether or not to continue dating a man, or how deeply to get involved. By identifying and avoiding the potential cheaters in the dating pool, you can save yourself a lot of unnecessary headaches and heartaches.
Rate Your Date with the Potential Cheaters Quiz
So before you fall head-over-heels in love or get too attached to that new man in your life, rate your dates cheating potential with the 7 questions below:
Potential Cheaters Quiz
1.Does he thrive on adventure?
2.Did he have a great deal of sexual experience prior to your relationship?
3.Does he have lots of female friends?
4.Does he have male friends who are cheating on their wives or girlfriends?
5.Does he have a parent who cheated?
6.Did he cheat in any of his past relationships?
7.Does he feel that infidelity is really no big deal?
What the Answers Mean:
1.Some men enjoy all the suspense, deception and intrigue that go along with infidelity. Theyll cheat just for the thrill of the chase.
2.Studies reveal that men who were extremely sexually active before settling down in a committed relationship are more apt to engage in sex outside that relationship. Dont expect a leopard to change his spots.
3.Close friendships with women are a common starting point for infidelity. Friends can quickly turn into lovers. The closer the friendship, the greater the odds that it will develop into an affair.
4.Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. If his friends are cheating, hell soon be cheating too.
5.Infidelity tends to run in families. Children of unfaithful parents are often programmed to follow in their footsteps, considering infidelity to be the norm.
6.Once a cheater, always a cheater. There are exceptions, but statistically speaking, if he cheated once, hes more apt to do it again. His history will probably repeat itself.
7.If he doesnt believe that infidelity is wrong, his behavior will reflect his beliefs.
How to Evaluate Your Results
Generally speaking, the more yes answers, the greater the likelihood that this man will cheat. But some answers carry more weight than
others, so youll want to take a closer look at the results.
If you answered yes to #1, #2, or #5 (but not all three), hes a POTENTIAL CHEATER who may very well cheat on you if the opportunity presents itself. If you decide to get involved with him, you need to make it difficult for him to cheat. Familiarize yourself with the signs of infidelity, so youll know if he starts to stray.
If you answered yes to #3 or #4 alone, together, or in combination with #1 or #2, hes a COMMON GARDEN-VARIETY CHEATER who will cheat if he feels he can do so without getting caught. Your challenge, if you insist on dating him, is to stay one step ahead of him by learning to recognize the early warning signs. If you know how to spot the signs of impending infidelity, you may be able to stop his cheating before it starts, or leave before he breaks your heart. Familiarize yourself with the 21 major categories of telltale signs.
If you answered yes to #6 alone or in combination with #1,#2, #3, #4, or #5 youre dealing with an EXPERIENCED CHEATER who knows how to hide the obvious signs of infidelity. The most important thing to do if youre dating this man is learn to spot the subtle signs of infidelity, because these are the signs that will inevitably give him away. Get a good infidelity reference guide, watch him like a hawk, and try not to get too deeply involved.
If you answered yes to #7 alone ( This ones the biggie!) or in combination with any others, youve got a HARD-CORE, HABITUAL CHEATER on your hands whos probably already having an affair. (You could unknowingly be the Other Woman.) For this man, cheating is a way of life. If you dont want to become an infidelity statistic, leave this man alone. Should you decide to take on this challenge, youre in serious trouble if you dont know how to spot the subtle signs of infidelity. Forget about watching for the usual signs of cheating. This man is an expert at covering his tracks. The best thing you can do is become adept at spotting the subtle signs of infidelity, since there wont be any obvious signs to give him away. The subtle signs are the ones he wont even think to cover up. Get the best infidelity reference book you can find to help you recognize these subtle signs. Invest in a copy of Is He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs which lists practically every known sign of infidelity ( http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com ) and keep it handy at all times.
How to Deal With a Potential Cheater
If youre already dating a potential cheater, or thinking about dating one, you need to know what to do. Even if you only had one yes answer on the Potential Cheaters Quiz, theres still cause for concern. However, there are precautions you can take. My special report, How to Handle a Potential Cheater, gives you several successful strategies to use. To receive your FREE copy of this special report which normally sells for $7, send an e-mail to: InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with the words "Potential Cheater Report in the subject line.
Ruth Houston 2005 All rights reserved.
About the Author
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the author of Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs, an infidelity reference book which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Ruths website http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com provides practical advice on all aspects of infidelity. Ruth also does personal infidelity consultations. For details visit http://www.infidelityconsultations.com
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